Every relationship has a dynamic · Learn to read yours
When someone keeps pulling away, you don't have to disappear with them.
Every relationship runs on a pattern. Steady shows you yours — the loop you and your person keep repeating, and where it can be interrupted.
Discover your relationship dynamic.
See your pattern →18 quick questions · about 2 minutes
Free. No sign-up.
Recognize the pattern. Choose what happens next.
Is it you… or is it the pattern?
Every answer you've been given makes you pick a side. Either you're too much — too anxious, too needy, too available. Or they're the problem — avoidant, emotionally unavailable, not ready.
Neither one explains why it keeps happening.
You reach. They pause. Their pause makes you reach harder. Your reaching makes them pause longer. Two reasonable people, one loop, and nobody is driving it.
Most people try to work out what's wrong with you, or what's wrong with them. Steady shows you what's happening between you — and that's the part you can actually change.
18 questions · about 2 minutes · free, no sign-up
The hardest relationships aren't always the ones that end. Sometimes they're the ones that never fully begin. The ones filled with almosts.
Almost together. Almost certain. Almost clear.
Enough connection to feel real, enough distance to keep you guessing. So you start looking for the pattern — in the texts, the timing, the little things. Not because you're overthinking it, but because there's usually something real underneath the mixed signals.
Every relationship runs on patterns. Once you can see yours, the mixed signals stop feeling random — the push and pull starts to make sense.
And once you can see the pattern, you can work with it — together — instead of guessing your way through.
How Steady works
Three simple moves — the same three that live inside the app.
Signal
Make sense of what happened.
Get the moment out of your head and onto the page — the facts, the feeling, what you noticed — so you can actually see it.
Reach
Figure out what to say.
Say it raw, just for you. No performance, no perfect wording — just what you mean, before you talk yourself out of it.
Steady
See your patterns.
Watch what keeps showing up over time — the distance, the push and pull — so you can choose your next move instead of repeating it.
A peek inside the app
“Steady doesn't tell you what they're thinking. It helps you see your dynamic, understand your own reactions, and figure out what you both need.
Understand your dynamic.
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